This is how I apply reconstructor and conditioner to my hair. In the interest of time, I mix the two products together and deep condition under my hair steamer.
It is important to condition your hair after each wash. If your hair is relaxed, then make the time to deep condition with heat at least twice a month. I understand that we have busy lifestyles, but you will see improvement in your hair, if you make the time to deep condition with heat.
As an alternative to using a hair steamer, you can use a shower cap and sit under your dryer, or use a heat cap to deep condition for at least 15 minutes.